There is a warning signal in our lives that can be a clue to tell us when we’re stuck in the 3 R’s — resentment, resistance, and revenge. That warning signal is anger. Let’s discuss why it is important to be aware of this emotion in our lives. On page 38 of If How-To’s Were [...]

If someone’s intention doesn’t match yours then you don’t want to be doing business with them. Why? Mismatched intentions result in conflict. When the smallest obstacle arises, problems will occur, hindering performance. You can either find someone whose intention matches yours, or you can support someone in clarifying their intention. Let me give you an [...]

Often, people who have been exposed to the concept of intention confuse it with will power. Intention is not will power. Will power comes from the conscious mind, or head. (See chapter 2 of If How To’s Were Enough We Would All Be Skinny Rich and Happy). Whenever there is a conflict between the subconscious, [...]

What is a goal you will be working on in the New Year? If you do not achieve that goal, how will you feel? Will you be sad, disappointed, or will you have that “Oh well, I tried” feeling? In terms of intention, you must set your intention for that goal so high, that not [...]

Living from probability takes place when you look at what you are capable of and what you have done in the past. From this perspective, you calculate whether you think you can do something and whether you can get incremental, or minute, increases for your life. Living from possibility, on the other hand, is the [...]